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Why Does Mediation Offer Better Outcomes?

When restructuring your family and planning for a new future, you have a number of resolution pathways to consider.

Matters are perhaps a little easier for couples without children, but there are always difficult decisions and emotions to deal with when facing separation and divorce. Litigation and the Courts can be expensive, both emotionally and financially. Third party decision making processes, such as the Courts or Arbitration, offer only limited opportunities for dialogue, understanding and compromise. The negative consequences of toxic conflict on our health, our future, and especially the well-being of our children are well known. Mediation offers a better way forward, and opportunities to craft a stable future and co-parenting relationships that will protect you and those you love. The ADR Institute of Alberta (ADRIA) offers access to professional mediators and other ADR options that can assist you in moving forward.

What are the tangible benefits of mediation?

• Confidentiality. Sensitive family and financial matters can be discussed privately - something not available in the Courts.

• A mediation settlement agreement is enforceable.

• Mediation is conducted in a safe and supportive environment.

• Mediation is usually faster and less expensive.

• The Mediator does NOT make the decisions You fully retain decision-making authority (as does your former partner).

• You can express your underlying interests and concerns, as opposed to just presenting your position.

• There are opportunities to listen and better understand the needs of your former partner.

• You can better protect the well-being of your children - their future and yours.

• There are no limitations to what can be discussed or agreed upon. Common outcomes include agreement on child and/ or spousal support, the division of resources and property, and co-parenting plans.

• You can establish guidelines regarding the manner in which future conflicts can be avoided and/or resolved.

• You can be accompanied by a supportive family member or friend.

The ADR Institute of Alberta (ADRIA) supports the highest standards of professional conduct.

ADRIA Provides:

• Trained Professionals in Family ADR

• Nationally Recognized Credentials in Dispute Resolution

• A Code of Professional Conduct and Ethics

• A public Complaint and Discipline process

Be sure to:

• Access our online Directory of Mediators, Arbitrators, and ADR Specialists

• Look for a Professional Designation

Questions to ask when hiring:

• Do you have a professional designation?

• What is your training?

• What is your experience in this area?

• What style of ADR do you use?

• Are you a member of a professional organization?

• Do you follow a code of ethics?

• What recourse do I have if I am unhappy with the service I receive?

• Do you carry professional liability insurance?

• What are your fees, and would there be an upper limit?

Contact us with any questions

The professional association of mediators, arbitrators, and other ADR practitioners.
Alternate Dispute Resolution Institute of Alberta