I Dated Again & I Don’t Regret It!
Finding the courage to date and find love again after divorce can be daunting. You start to wonder:
“Is my ‘picker’ off?”
“Do I really want to open myself up to potential heartbreak all over again?”
“Maybe I’m just meant to be single for the rest of my life.”
I thank my lucky stars that I’m a born romantic, because after two marriages and two divorces, I persevered and figured out how to love myself and attract someone who loves me for me. He really sees me for who I am and loves me with as close to unconditional love as I’ve ever experienced from another human being.
It’s breathtaking.
But it was a journey to get here.
Had you told me in my early 20’s that I’d have to go through everything I went through with my two marriages, becoming a single Mom of three children, managing a career and my life… and that I wouldn’t meet the love of my life until my mid-40s… I may have cried in disbelief for weeks!
With my daughters and their future love lives as inspiration, I decided to take my heartbreaks and lessons learned, and combine them with a deep study of why we attract relationships that are either healthy or unhealthy for us.
It is possible to be “successful” in all areas of our lives but keep attracting romantic partners who aren’t aligned with what we deserve and desire.
I wrote two books, received my coaching certification, and began teaching my 5V Love Compass method to clients in 2023.
Just last month, one of my clients texted me that she eloped with the man she met during our coaching sessions in the summer of 2024.
These stories delight me, but they don’t surprise me… I teach how self-love and changing the way we talk to ourselves and open up to receiving draws love in.
The work… works!
I’m excited to share that I have expanded my coaching to make it affordable, accessible, and approachable.
The Love Compass Coaching Circle is for women who have a desire to find love again… even if it feels scary or impossible.
Right now, the Circle is just for women, but if you are a man seeking a love & dating coach, I’m happy to work with you privately.
Here is the link: https://love.stefaniseek.com/coachingcircle
Ladies! Come join me and let’s get you into the relationship you crave!
This article was written by Stefani Seek and featured in the Spring 2025 issue of Life Changes & Divorce Magazine Canada.
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Meet the Author - Stefani Seek
Stefani Seek is a best-selling international author, speaker, and certified private love and life coach. After experiencing two marriages and two divorces by age 42, she began a journey of self-discovery that led to her 5V Love Compass method—helping women rebuild confidence, self-love, and joy to attract healthy relationships. Founder and CEO of Seek Love, LLC, Stefani has been featured as “The Love Coach” on NBC affiliate stations, Mission Accepted Media, and multiple podcasts. She is the author of The Love Compass and Your Love Compass and now enjoys a healthy, loving relationship with her partner.
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